Family life is a system of human relationships designed by God to provide man’s needs. In the family, man finds companionship, sexual satisfaction, and learns love, which is an attribute of God himself. It is in the family that children learn to become socialized. No other arrangement has ever been devised as a successful alternative. It is evident that Jesus was serious when he said, “What therefore God hath joined together let not man put asunder” (Matt. 19:6). That which God has provided, ordained, and authorized has always been a focus of attack by the forces of Satan. Today, the family system of life is a major issue in the Devil’s warfare against God’s design for a fulfilling human relationship. Many couples are asking themselves what is missing in their relationship with one another? Why don’t parents really feel close to their children? Why doesn’t the family have that warm, close feeling that families should have? Could anything change the situation and bring the joy back into family life? Increasingly, these are the questions being asked by all segments of our society, and for good reasons. 
The challenge of strengthening family life depends upon gaining knowledge about strong, healthy families. We might ask what can we learn from strong, healthy families that can be applied to our own family to strengthen it? 
Number one is to develop the art of expressing sincere appreciation to your spouse and children. Concentrate on their individual strengths. William James, one of the greatest psychologists America has ever produced, commented on a book he wrote that he failed to include the most important need of all – the need to be appreciated. 
Number two is to spend more time with your family. Plan more family activities that all find enjoyable. Learn to say “no” to outside demands that aren’t really that important anyway. Try to keep your family “number one” in terms of how you spend your time. 
Number three is to open the channels of communication. Take time to talk with each other often and be a good listener. Talk out problems as they come. 
Number four is to add spiritual strength to your family life. Participate in church activities. As a family, reading religious materials and family devotionals are only a few of the ways this might be accomplished. Knowing God cares, and has a purpose for your life is a great comfort. Being aware of God’s love makes the family more tolerant and forgiving. 
Lastly, build a high degree of commitment toward your family. Make family life your number one priority. Invest your time and energy into the relationships with your spouse and children. The result can, and will be a stronger, more fulfilling family life.

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